Schuetz

Christian couples who wait to have sex until marriage are faced with a number of challenges. Having not been experienced with sexual practice, the couple is challenged with everything from technique to the varying levels of sexual satisfaction, stimulus, and so forth. Much of the performance burden for Christian fulfillment in marriage sex lies on the male. While on one hand he may experience pleasure much easier, he holds the burden in making sure his partner is truly satisfied. It can take literally years to "learn the ropes" and find the common ground where both Christian partners are fulfilled through their marriage sex. The problems Christian couples face are an assortment of clumsiness, awkwardness, ignorance, denial, and individual ego issues. If these problems are not addressed from the start, the woman could go through years or even a lifetime without having experienced an orgasm, and the male could go through a lifetime of only a fraction of the pleasure he could be experiencing through Christian fulfillment in marriage sex. And he could be completely missing out on the pleasure experienced from knowing with absolute certainty that true Christian fulfillment in marriage sex has been achieved by not only himself, but by his wife as well.

How to ensure Christian fulfillment in marriage sex is achieved:

1. Be capable of admitting from the start that the both of you are inexperienced in marriage sex. Drop the ego and instead of feeling embarrassment of any sort, feel excitement and joy in knowing that both of you can go through the learning process together, with no shame or guilt, only excitement, adventure and ecstasy!

2. Take on the attitude that since you waited until marriage to have sex, that your Christian fulfillment in marriage sex will be an absolutely amazing reward. And since you both are starting from square one, you can envision your journey as adventurous, long lasting, and one that will never ever get old! Many other couples, by the time they get married are actually "burned out" from sex! And many times this is the reason they choose to 'settle down', because sex has become uninteresting and they believe the next phase is settling down, and hence their sex life simmers even further. Where as the couple who, for the first time ever, are seeking christian fulfillment in marriage sex, they have a long, exciting, sexual journey ahead of them.

3. Do consider part of it practice. Your Christian fulfillment in marriage sex should consist of practice, and performing exercises that will better enhance sexual activity. There are a variety of ways couples can increase marriage sex pleasures. Taking the time to learn different techniques and perform different exercises together will increase the experience of oneness even further.

A different attitude needs to be adhered to when dealing with first time sex upon marriage. True Christian fulfillment in marriage sex should involve a willingness to learn, explore, exercise, and have fun. Be open to your partners personal desires and preferences, and be willing to practice and exercise to have the best marriage sex experience possible!